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                                 ENTERING INTO HIS WILL 

To enter into a marriage relationship with your partner, you must have the understanding that you are operating within the ambit of the will of God. You must enter into His will before choosing a lifemate otherwise you will choose in error.
To enter into His will therefore, you must have the attributes of God. These attributes are;
1. Foreknowledge
2. Power
3. Intelligence
4. Accuracy

 1. FOREKNOWLEDGE: In choosing a lifemate, you need to watch, ask questions observe characters and consult counsellors with insight into both marital and spiritual issues ( not ritualists).
You should do everything possible to confirm if your vision about your union with the person you are choosing will bring peace. You must know what you want and not what your friends, relatives or Pastor wants.
As an express image of God, you must do things His way. God knew what He wanted at creation and as the first civil engineer He understood the fact that no work can be done without light so He called out light first before any other thing.
You can only lay claim to maturity in choosing a lifemate if you know who you want and why you want that person. Once you start to have the peace of God about that person, it is a great sign that you are on the way to making a great choice. But more importantly, YOU MUST KNOW WHAT YOU WANT!!!!

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