LOVE We have had our checklists properly examined. However, what the checklist is testing is love. - Do I love this man or woman enough to settle down with him or her? - Does he or she love me enough to warrant me settling down with him? A man of God shared the example of a television drama in which a wedding was conducted. He said in the drama, the officiating minister in the wedding (strangely) asked the bride whether she had considered her fate should the husband lose his job and consequently his official car and accommodation. The bride turned blue and pleaded that the wedding be postponed until she had considered these issues. To answer the question asked above, we must look at what genuine love is about. CHARACT...