JUBRIL AKINRINMADE'S BLOG

                                FINANCIAL MATURITY   It is unwise for a person to enter into marriage without a sure and steady income. Being financially mature does not mean having millions of naira in your bank account, it simply means you have a regular flow of income with which to meet daily financial obligations.  Money is one of the biggest reasons why marriages break up all over the world. If you do not want your marriage to boost up the statistics, you need to build  a steady financial platform before getting married. Before ever thinking of marriage, knowing fully well the responsibilities attached to it, a young man should, among other things, be financially independent.  If you still depend on your parents, guardians, friends and/or relatives for dole outs to pay bills, top up your phone, get your meals or feed your dependants, then please do not get married..........how do you...

          BEFORE GETTING MARRIED     MATURITY BEFORE GETTING MARRIED   It is a known fact that maturity is key in marriage. Marriage, whichever way or place it is consummated is  not for kids. A successful marriage can only be built by two matured people who are willing to  - Make sacrifices in whichever way it is demanded  - Forgive as many times as offences come  - Overlook faults as if they never occurred  Unfortunately, maturity does not always come with age and for most people, it has to be consciously learnt and practiced.  If you want to make your marriage work, you must start making efforts before  the wedding date  is fixed to “wake up and grow up “. You must be determined to grow as an individual and develop your minds, intellect and emotions to the maximum level that can ensure peaceful co-habitation.  Even though the following list is not inclusive, to have a joyous marriage, individua...